it's all the nonsense of brendan

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Lonely

I just suddenly felt so Lonely. I begin to Miss Everyone I Love. Indeed, peoples, family and my friends is all around me, surrounding me. But, it just lack of something. Just someone or something isn't there. LOVE. That's it, it's LOVE !

I am so grateful that I have so many wonderful friends around me. Namely - the Holy Pooja, DurgananTHINI, my bitchy-Gaga Sister-Fajriah *oh, I manage to spell her name correctly! PROUD!*, Kelly, Andric Brother, WeiYi, Pachelbel Brother, Elvin, Syafiq, Mahirah, Nurul, my classmates and of course many more.. *Well, I didn't mention your name not because that you are not important, it's just that I am too lazy.*

Things was not going according to my way all the time. Some misunderstandings and conflict flicked off on Monday, and I had a quarrel with my dad - the first time in my Life! It started off because of his bad attitude. Boom! I can't control and we quarrel.

Let's come to the theory on Quarrel.
I am always thinking, how Quarrel always started. I think I've figure out one of the reasons - expressing feelings.

When people are angry, they shout, right? But, if you wanted to express your feelings to that angry man, how would you do? Speaking to that person softly or speak louder than that person. Unless you are an extreme Peace maker, or else an ordinary person will try to shout back or even louder than that angry man voice. Let's get into situation.

Man A (angry man) VS Man B :

Situation 1:
Man A shouted :" You are a disrespectful person! "
Man B said softly: " No, I think you have msitaken. "

Putting yourself into that Man A's shoe, do you think you will listen to Man B? Hopefully no. Because at that point of time, you only think that YOU ARE RIGHT, and is off to other people's comment and continue shouting.

Situation 2:
Man A shouted: " You are a disrespectful person! "
Man B shouted: " NO! I AM NOT! ... "

Putting yourself into Man A's shoe again, will you listen to Man B? Hopefully yes. Because, Man B is expressing himself in a Fierce and Powerful stand, trying to let you stop and listen to him.

Exactly, this is how the quarrel started off between my dad and me. *Pfft*. Anyway, I got to say that I have never regret quarreling with him, because I had expressed my thoughts and feelings. *Aww...*

p/s: " I miss LOVE "

a little video to share. N16!!

Wednesday, February 17, 2010,8:10 PM